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Written by Rick Valens
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Always feeling insecurity over your love
relationship? So much so to the extent of even feeling suspicious,
doubting your partner’s love for you?
Well though it might not exactly always be your
fault but still I must say, this is the beginning of a very unhealthy
relationship. In the long run, it might even lead to an end of the
relationship.
I should believe that you are having such thoughts because you really
cherish this relationship? But well, perhaps cherishing it just a bit
too much? Think about it, how would you feel if things were the other
way round? Would you like it if your partner were to doubt your love
for them instead? Always calling on you to find out where you are, whom
you are with, what you are doing? Believe me, nobody like that. It is
only negative and more negative feedbacks that I have got from friends
that are having such encounters.
Some, who simply cannot stand it, initiated a break off.
Remember, trust between partners is one of the key criteria to a happy
and fulfilling relationship. Without it, an ever-lasting relationship
would never be possible.
But first of all, before we can built up this mutual trust, that is one
very important thing you must achieve and that is, to trust yourself!
If you don’t even trust yourself, how can you expect others, your very
love to trust you? To have faith in the relationship?
You must believe in yourself, believing that there is this very special
you within yourself. A very special you that make you well liked by
friends and family, which of course also include your very love, loving
this very special and unique you.
Everybody is unique in his or her very own way. That can only be one
you and no more else in this world. Your friends and family like you
for who you are. Your love, loves you for who you are. So when everyone
genuine likes you, how can you yourself, don’t like yourself as who you
are? Doubting your very own self? I don’t suppose you wanna lose your
friends and that special someone whom you truly love?
Look into the mirror today and tell yourself, “You are great! I love
you!” Yes, when you love yourself, you will naturally have this feel of
confidence bringing out that very radiance in you. When you yourself
are happy, others will naturally feel happy when being with you.
Remember, love is always a two-way communication. It takes two, a happy you and a happy him or her to complete the equation.
©2005 www.loveletterbox.com
Rick Valens
Staff Writer for http://www.loveletterbox.com , Love Relationship Discussion Forum
Currently also freelance writer for http://www.ecemetery.org,
Monument of Eternal Memory
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